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Cruel Things Women Do To Men ( Time for a little "Equal Time" )

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Men get plenty of blame for being promiscuous and superficial when it comes to women,
but let's face it -- women are guilty of their share of nasty shenanigans, too.
Here are 9 ways that women can be uniquely cruel to guys. If your lady-friend is resorting
to any of this type of behavior, you should feel free to call her out on it and refuse to put up with it.  

They Don't Pick Up The Phone
You convinced her to give you her number and you’re feeling good about yourself.
Your charm and good looks have obviously made an impression on her.
Unfortunately, when you try to call, she doesn’t pick up or, worse yet, she’s given you a fake number.
Some women will give you their numbers because it’s easier than trying to tell you why she’s not interested.
It would save everyone a whole lot of time if women were just honest from the get-go about whether they're
interested or not. Is our pride wounded? Yes. But we can take it.

They Use Men For Free Drinks
Some women go out never planning to spend any of their own money on drinks at the bar or club.
Yes, some guys encourage this type of behavior by trying to buy attention from women,
but for those of us who'd rather be judged on our merits than on our wallets, this type of situation is
incredibly frustrating. We're happy to buy a woman a drink if moved to do so --
but it shouldn't be her whole purpose for talking to us.

They Emotionally Manipulate Men
Most men hate the sight of a crying woman, and some women will take advantage of this by
using the threat of tears to get what they want. Yes, if we didn't have such a strong aversion
to tears in the first place, maybe this situation wouldn't present itself, but here we are in 2014,
and a lot of women need to do little more than shed a tear and a guy's on his knees.
If this happens to you, keep a cool head and try to talk it out.

They Use Physical Violence
Men are usually raised to never hit a woman. Unfortunately, there are some women who use this
aspect of a man’s social conditioning to gain power over him. In the minds of these women,
it’s perfectly acceptable to slap a boyfriend across the face when he says something that pisses her off.
Confident that he would never hit her back, this type of woman feels like she can inflict any kind
of physical pain on him without fear of repercussion. But the fact is that hitting and hurting your
significant other is wrong, no matter who you are.

They Criticize Their Men In Public
Over the past 10 years, an ever more common trope in TV and movies is the bumbling man-child and
his accomplished, competent girlfriend or wife. The guy's the butt of all the jokes and eye-rolls and
he takes it in stride because he's grateful to be paired up with such a great lady. This on-screen dynamic
bleeds over into everyday life all the time. There's no reason to take constant public criticism from your
wife or girlfriend. If she wouldn't like you doing it to her, she shouldn't dish it out. Simple as that.

They Don't Disclose Their Relationship Status
You’ve pulled out all your best moves and you seem to be making progress with the cute girl you’ve just met.
When you finally get to the point when you feel you can safely ask for her number, she smiles and says:
“I have a boyfriend.” That information would have been nice to have at the beginning of the conversation.
It’s certainly not the worst thing a woman could do to a man, but it is annoying when she lets you assume
that she’s available so that she can enjoy your flirtation and flattery.

They Withhold Sex To Make A Point
There's not being in the mood, and then there's using sex as a power lever. Women have gone on strike in the
bedroom as a form of protest for centuries -- there are parts of the world where it remains an effective form
of social protest. Needless to say, it's not our favorite way to get a point across, mostly because
it's frustratingly effective. We get it! Can't we just talk about it?

They Test Their Men
You’re all ready to go for a night out with your friends, when your girlfriend calls and asks you to change your
plans to be with her instead. She doesn’t have any particular reason; she just wants to see you.
She knows that you had plans to meet up with the guys, but if you really loved her, you’d come over to her place instead, right? If her request comes with an “If you really loved me,” then it’s a test. If you choose anything other than immediately rushing to her side, you’re going to fail. This kind of testing in a relationship is indeed cruel and petty.

They Flirt To Inspire Jealousy
Maybe she’s feeling under appreciated, maybe you’ve just had a big fight or maybe she just enjoys the tortured
look on your face. For whatever reason, girls who flirt obviously with other guys in front of their
boyfriends are immature and manipulative.
 

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If  your  looking  for  love  and  loyalty  and  respect   get  a  dog !

 

 

    The  dog  will  never  turn  against  you  and  is  always  glad  to  see  you . 

 

  He  still  be  there  long  after  she's  long  gone !     (  women  are  pure   evil  )   That's   why  there  always  cold  they  have  no  hart ,  to  pump   blood !

 

   I  waited  till   I   was  38  years  old  to  get  married .  I'll  wait  till  I'm   88  years  old  to  get  married   next  time .   That  way  I'll  be  to  old  to  care  when  she  starts  to  treat  me  like  crap  to  even  care .

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After 35 yrs. of marriage I think I can safely say we don't have to play those games any more!!! Lol!!! Do I have a perfect marriage....how could I cause I'm not perfect, and neither is the Mrs.! Communication and forgiveness are key....not talkin' things out and holding grudges are a recipe for disaster IMO. Like I say...I'm no expert, but I will say this....I could make it on my own if I had to...but I would get sick of my own cookin' real fast and life would sure be boring without a good lookin' lady to share life with! Yeah, there are "cases" in both genders...but I'm thinkin' there are good ones still to be found on both side of the fence, but it starts with "being the right person" and not just wantin' to "find the right person".....just sayin'!!! ;o)

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Well in my younger days I played those games because games where played on me. I learned how to do everything listed above because it was done to me. In my mid thirties I decided to do what I wanted. I'd go out have fun if I wanted sex then I would chose the man that gave me the most attention. I'd tell him thank you afterwards and wait for him to say can we do this again? If he didn't then it didn't. I guess I got tired of the games people play with each other. But they always came back and I didn't ly to them. If they asked me if I was seeing anyone else then I would tell them yes or no, but only if they asked. My point is that most women learn these things from the men throughout their lives and advise from other women who had it done to them too. The only way to cut to the chase is to know what you want and have the confidence to get it and tell the truth. *** :)

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And?

What's your point Mr Parrot?

Just kidding!

Not all women work it like that.

I have been guilty of a couple of the above!

So Spank me! :eyebrows:

 

 

Wow, those were my thoughts exactly :lol:!  Yeah uh-huh, you just wait until we get home...

 

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As I wrote in the other   moose thread about ladies....jmho of course

 

Point is .. There's no sainthood on one side and  just sin, ill-will and lust on the other.

 

 There's beauty and misery on both sides.

 

As usual it's always up to the single Individual. Some luck ( for both sides) is needed too.


 
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As I wrote in the other moose thread about ladies....jmho of course

Point is .. There's no sainthood on one side and just sin, ill-will and lust on the other.

There's beauty and misery on both sides.

As usual it's always up to the single Individual. Some luck ( for both sides) is needed too.

Umbertino spoken like a true MAN! You are ever so right mysterious on both sides. Oh and a good lover never reveals their secrets. That was ment as a compliment! :)

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If  your  looking  for  love  and  loyalty  and  respect   get  a  dog !

 

 

    The  dog  will  never  turn  against  you  and  is  always  glad  to  see  you . 

 

  He  still  be  there  long  after  she's  long  gone !     (  women  are  pure   evil  )   That's   why  there  always  cold  they  have  no  hart ,  to  pump   blood !

 

   I  waited  till   I   was  38  years  old  to  get  married .  I'll  wait  till  I'm   88  years  old  to  get  married   next  time .   That  way  I'll  be  to  old  to  care  when  she  starts  to  treat  me  like  crap  to  even  care .

Hi Muleman!  To your point that "women are pure evil"... I would just say that SOME women are evil... and they give the rest a bad name.  Making such "blanket" statements isn't helpful.  Perhaps you choose poorly... are you only attracted to women who are evil?  Does your own behavior bring out the evil in an otherwise, good woman?  Take some responsibility... just sayin'  ;)  I hope you don't wait till you're 88... soften your heart and have some faith.  There's someone out there for you  :)

I dedicate this song to you... there's NO wisdom to it... just thought you might relate! Good luck. 

"Want You To Love Me Like My Dog"

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After 35 yrs. of marriage I think I can safely say we don't have to play those games any more!!! Lol!!! Do I have a perfect marriage....how could I cause I'm not perfect, and neither is the Mrs.! Communication and forgiveness are key....not talkin' things out and holding grudges are a recipe for disaster IMO. Like I say...I'm no expert, but I will say this....I could make it on my own if I had to...but I would get sick of my own cookin' real fast and life would sure be boring without a good lookin' lady to share life with! Yeah, there are "cases" in both genders...but I'm thinkin' there are good ones still to be found on both side of the fence, but it starts with "being the right person" and not just wantin' to "find the right person".....just sayin'!!! ;o)

 

Rod,

 

I could not say it better than you do :)  

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I hate it when people say that all men are the same.  Because that has not been my experience.

 

I have known grate men and some not so good men.  And the same goes for us women.

 

There are a lot of trashy ones out there that you need to be very careful of but there are also some very fine ones as well.

 

So if you're smart and you keep your eye open you just may find one.

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I hate it when people say that all men are the same.  Because that has not been my experience.

 

I have known grate men and some not so good men.  And the same goes for us women.

 

There are a lot of trashy ones out there that you need to be very careful of but there are also some very fine ones as well.

 

So if you're smart and you keep your eye open you just may find one.

Holy words.

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I have a wonderful Hubby. Heck anyone that would put up with me deserves an award.

 

There are good and bad everywhere. Women are crazy, but so are Men...just find the one that has the kind of crazy you can live with...fall in love and marry that one.

 

For the record...ya'all think I am weird/crazy/ect..you should meet my Hubby...he is 10 times worse than me!!!!

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I have a wonderful Hubby. Heck anyone that would put up with me deserves an award.

 

There are good and bad everywhere. Women are crazy, but so are Men...just find the one that has the kind of crazy you can live with...fall in love and marry that one.

 

For the record...ya'all think I am weird/crazy/ect..you should meet my Hubby...he is 10 times worse than me!!!!

Agreed my Friend.

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For the record...ya'all think I am weird/crazy/ect..you should meet my Hubby...he is 10 times worse than me!!!!

Hey...I thought "unique/crazy/weird" was what we were supposed to aim for??? :) From that standpoint Snow your tellin' us you really married up!!! ;o) lol

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I don't really see anything cruel in this original post. Some things may appear manipulative (oh and something men never do) :rolleyes: ...so what's your point?

Some things women do are just basically avoidance of a confrontation....is that cruel?  I think sometimes, women give the wrong number to a man or turn him away nicely using other means as protecting themselves from an ugly, angry drunk at the end of the night. I've done it many times in my youth at the bar. It's easier then tell the low, life scum to get the F***** out of my face. Get my meaning?

 

So you buy us a drink. That's a ticket to a "roll in the hay"...are you kidding man?  You know darn well why you are buying us a drink. To start the conversation and hope we take you home. Fat chance buddy.

 

Oh and I personally like the "they don't disclose their relationship status"...there aren't ANY married men out there running around are there. HA...most women have run into the guy who pretends to be single only to find out he's got a wife and kids at home.

 

Oh and Mrparrot...don't bother calling me...I screen ALL my calls. ^_^

 

cru·el

ˈkro͞oəl/

adjective




  1. 1.



    willfully causing pain or suffering to others, or feeling no concern about it.

    adjective: cruel; comparative adjective: crueller; superlative adjective: cruellest; comparative adjective: crueler; superlative adjective: cruelest

    "people who are cruel to animals"




    antonyms:

    compassionate









  2. 2.



    causing pain or suffering.

    "the winters are long, hard, and cruel"







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Your Dog is barking at the back door.

 

Your wife is outside, yelling from the front door.

 

Which one do you let in?

 

The Dog.

 

He'll quit barking once he comes in...

 

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How to know who loves you more, your wife, or your dog.

 

Lock them both in the trunk of your car.

 

Wait 5 minutes.

 

Open the trunk...

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