Taking Responsibility For Yourself

[UNEEK]

Taking Responsibility For Yourself   By Ann Christine Johnson

Response-ability is the ability to respond to all that is happening around you and all that is happening in your life.

It is the ability to respond positively and creatively to the many challenges of life: change, loss, bereavement, infirmity, disease, accidents, old age; to other people’s choices of behavior; and to the many frightening and disturbing things that are happening in this world of ours, instead of reacting or over-reacting to everything.

Many people today feel pressured and overwhelmed by work, family and financial commitments. They haven’t yet learned to take full responsibility for their behavior. Often they lose control, reacting and over-reacting to things happening around them.
 

  Usually there is the tendency to blame others for their discomfort, instead of looking within for the source of their unhappiness.

When you can learn to observe and change your part in relationship patterns; when you can learn to stop taking things so personally; when you can detach from the petty irritations of life, other people’s flaws and all forms of negativity (fear, anger, resentment) then you will be able to be more in control of yourself and your life.

Personal responsibility means being responsible for your own thoughts, feelings and actions; for living your life with integrity; and for monitoring your own feelings to determine whether you are still connected to Source Energy (God, Universal Love), or not.

For fostering and protecting your own emotional and psychological health; for your own personal and spiritual growth; for facing your fears and managing your life in ways that will prevent burnout; for how you allow the past and other’s behavior to affect your current level of happiness. It means being responsible for the way that you behave around others.

When someone says something that evokes a strong reaction in you, this is because they have pressed a button for you. This means there is something within you that has yet to be resolved.

There maybe be a hidden hurt or fear (lurking unknown to you) somewhere below the surface of your consciousness waiting for someone or something to trigger it; or there maybe something within you which has finally come to the surface to be resolved.

The strong reaction on your part gives you an insight as to what needs to be resolved or healed.

Although it is inappropriate to hit out at another person, being human you will react from time to time. By apologizing to the other person for your behavior, and meaning it; by resolving to make every effort to avoid any future outbursts, you are taking responsibility for yourself and your behavior towards others.

Don’t be overly responsible for other people in any aspect of their lives, and don’t allow others to dump their responsibilities and problems onto you. Other people’s choice of behavior in any given situation is up to them.

By interfering, becoming too involved or protecting others from the consequences of their actions, you may be preventing others from making progress in their lives.

Steer clear of “psychic vampires” – ordinary people who, lacking in vitality, drain healthy people of their energies, usually with the unconscious intent of doing so. Steer clear of chronic complainers, the chronically angry, fault finders and blamers. Being around such persons will exhaust you.

If you spend your time taking responsibility for yourself and your own life then maybe you can teach those around you to do the same.

 

 

[UNEEK]

"Although it is inappropriate to hit out at another person, being human you will react from time to time. By apologizing to the other person for your behavior, and meaning it; by resolving to make every effort to avoid any future outbursts, you are taking responsibility for yourself and your behavior towards others.

Don’t be overly responsible for other people in any aspect of their lives, and don’t allow others to dump their responsibilities and problems onto you. Other people’s choice of behavior in any given situation is up to them."

 

 

Don't make someone a priority in your life when you are only an option in theirs - It is better to walk away rather than stay and be walked on  -  UNEEK

 

 

[Sentinel7]

Ahhh Uneek

 

I regret to inform you that you have just crossed a line that cannot be uncrossed.

By teaching self-responsibility. You are in direct conflict with our Government’s

position that your troubles are the direct result from the actions of the 1% .Who are self reliant, self-sufficient an hold themselves responsible for their own actions and emotions.

 

This attitude of self achievements  puts an undo burden on the segment of the population that cannot be self- reliant, self-sufficent or be held responsible for their actions or emotions.

We also find this attitude of self achievement a bit conceited seeing as how President Obama has stated numerous times. You Did Not Achieve This On Your Own.  

       

Government dependency is the new Constitution of Amerika  and must be adhered to at all cost. Only by adhering to this doctrine will we finally become the civilized, productive, safe, controlled and comfortable society that you’re Government has envisioned for you.

 

This letter is to inform you that your classification will be changed from benign citizen to Possible Extremist.

Your actions have required us to spend more time and resources in order reevaluate your standing and threat level of this country

The added  continuing reevaluation cost will be deducted from your account until such time that FISA and NSA determine that you are no longer a possible threat.

 

   Just a reminder register with the correct political party and vote properly to avoid future

   Scrutiny.

 

                                Your faithful public servant

                                                                       Sentinel 7

 

 

                            No Surrender No Retreat and No Compromise           

[Muleslayer]

Sad but to true