I don't see Adam twisting anyone's arm to join VIP, it is by your choice and your choice ONLY!!! I watched this site for several months before I decided to become VIP and have no regrets. Personally, I would much rather Adam to be silent than to feed a bunch of bull$heat. When I have emailed him on numerous occasions he always answered my questions in a VERY timely manner!! People do get brutal on here and sometimes too much..but don't carry your feelings on your shoulders. So, to you Joe P. this site is not for you!! My bonnet off to you Adam for not feeding us Bull$heat!!