I've got to admit i'm still confused about the bully or being disrespectful comment...all i really asked was for Adam's credentials....I would think we would ask that of anyone we ask advice for or want to learn from? I only asked once, so the 'repeatedly asked' thing confused me also...
In the past i've had good success with this program... http://www.123flashchat.com/
You can save a bit of money(if thats an issue) if you don't pay for the video chat option...I've found it to be very reliable, and have had a few big groups when we've had Congressmen or Lobbyist on (actually once i had both, it was VERY exciting)