OMG, Now I am the wife who will be trying to stop my husband's spending before we even get the money......I want it to last a lifetime so I can live financially independent with HIM ! I think my nightmares are starting already. Hubby just recieved a Gun Catalog in the mail today. God help me ! All I want is my old house of 40 years painted, a ceiling fan, some crown moulding, a car for myself since i haven't had one since he lost his job, new carpet and an oven. I haven't had an oven in 30 years. My gift will be to my kids who won't have to worry about us in our old age, we are already there. I want to live in a very nice nursing home and visit the kids, not live with them.......! I want to afford to give my children the gifts of my choice for Christmas and Birthdays and not just the ones on sale with a 20% discount card....! I'm praying for RV to go at 3.00....Please God !